Mikaila Moffit

Dating Mikaila Moffit

A brief overview of my personal experience dating Mikaila Moffit. This serves as a precautionary advisory to anyone
Mikaila Moffit is talking to and/or looking to date.

January 2023

I met Mikaila Moffit on Facebook dating in January 2023. Conversation was brief and light, nothing out of the ordinary for a dating app. We talked for approximately four months over text. We had a lot in common, similar beliefs, and similar goals.

April 2023

On April 27th, 2023, I asked Mikaila Moffit to be in an exclusive relationship. She agreed. Over the summer it was evident that her time available to commit to a relationship was extremly limited. I directly asked Mikaila on several occasions to set up a date in person to no avail.

At the time I was unaware that she had not disclosed to her family the nature of our relationship. Additionally, for most of the year of 2023 she had been actively writing lesbian smut on wattpad under fake accounts and had been actively asking multiple female content creators on tiktok to date/marry her. None of which she knew personally, just being a creep in the comments section. She was anything but loyal.

Loyalty was not even a word that was present in her vocabulary. You can verify any of these claims by simply googling her name. The sheer volume of tiktok videos that come up where she was actively simping over women in the comments section is disgusting, and frankly quite creepy. This is assuming she hasn't seen this site yet and deleted her tiktok. She will try to control the narrative if at all possible. But, for someone who is a raging narcissist with a chronic compulsive lying habit, she's pretty sh*tty at it. You'd figure someone who was a chronic manipulator would actually be good at hiding it, but she sucks at it.

But, I digress. Eventually she will find this site, and try to hide all the evidence and/or paint me out to be a villain trying to "discredit" her. My only message here is just do you research. Be thourough before you trust this woman. And if you are a guy, just know she is definitely a lesbian, or at the very least raging bisexual and dick is not her first choice. She just knows that guys are way easier to manipulate and it is HIGHLY unlikely that you are the only one she is talking to.

If you are a woman, be prepared that she is not mentally stable at this point in time. She has some serious stuff going on in her brain that is not good. Her family is fighting tooth and nail to keep her from self-destructing on a daily basis and it is a losing battle. My guess is that she is primarily driven by fear and guilt to an extreme, that it causes her to do dumb sh*t to "keep the order", but she doesn't realize that keeps giving that inner voice that torments her on a daily basis more ammunition to keep going. If she would just stop running from the mistakes she has made, grow up, admit that she messed up some stuff, and realize that it doesn't HAVE to define her, she might be able to finally escape her own demons.

But here is the thing, you can't do that for her. If you try to she will feel pressured, and she will withdraw to protect herself. At that point, you are already done. The only way, should you want to take the risk to try an help her, to actually succeed at it, is to listen to her. Literally, that is it. Her brain is such a f**king convoluted place that it scares even her. She can't stop the sh*t she does, because even she doesn't understand why she does it. She feels trapped and helpless in her own body, which if you have ever been there, is a brutal place to be.

And she handles it by avoiding it. She does not respond well to pressure AT ALL. The only way you will ever be able to help her is to be someone she feels safe with. Be the one place in the world where she doesn't feel judged, pressured, or forced. She doesn't have anyone like that because her family is so fed up with constantly trying to save her from her own noose that they don't take a word she says seriously. And what this woman craves more than life itself is to feel understood. And when she can't even understand why she does the dumb sh*t she does, that feels like a near impossibility to her. But, make no qualms about it, it will not be easy. She will hurt you, she will f**k up.

She will do sh*t that genuinely makes you question if she even loved you. I still don't know if she ever actually cared about me. I never will. But, you'll have to push through it and give her grace. Everyone is so fed up with her, and she keeps driving people away constantly, so it's going to take some time and you're going to need a thick skin, but if you genuinely love her, you might be able to help her realize that her past doesn't have to define her, but that won't happen if she keeps running from it. And if you are a guy, forget it, dick is not her preference, don't waste your time trying to convince yourself otherwise. An attractive, kind, soft-hearted woman will always win over you. Always.

March 2024

Eventually, the relational stresses led to Mikaila and I choosing to end the relationship.

April 2024

After approximately one month Mikaila decided she wanted to continue to pursue a relationship, and I accepted. We made plans for me to move to her hometown (250+ miles), which I did in May. I was operating under the assumption at the time that she disclosed to her family that I had moved there (she had not).

This is the first month in which Mikaila asked for help with supporting her and her family's bills. The total she asked for was approximately $250 per week. She suggested to me that she wanted to work for the money, and it would help her Writing career if she wrote blog posts for my blog in exhange for payment. No contractual agreement was signed.

June 2024

We had our first date in June. She invited me over to her parents' house, but I was asked not to tell them because they were out of town and did not know I was there.

July 2024

I met her family for the first time, and they seemed relatively welcoming and nice. Her dad was somewhat intimidating, but a giant teddy bear, to be frank. Her mom was nice and down to earth.

August 2024

During the month of August we went on dates weekly. They seemed light hearted and enjoyable, and her family invited me to join them for weekly dinner and family movie nights.

During the last week of August I found comments on Mikaila's tiktok page where she was actively asking out content creators while we were in a relationship.

On the night of August 31st, I went into severe hypoglycemia and subsequent insulin shock while I was asleep. This resulted in hospitalization and cerebral hypoxia. Following this, I had temporary amnesia. Mikaila told me during this time that I had made disrespectful comments about her Dad, and that her parents asked her to cease contact with me.

Additionally, in my conversation with her family in November 2025, I learned that Mikaila told her family that she stopped talking to me due to disrespectful comments I made about her father. It was implied that she did this of her own volition, not as a request from her parents. There is still no evidence aside from Mikaila's word that I made disrespectful comments about her family. Which makes sense, because I respected (and still respect) her family immensely for taking me in as part of their family. I do not, however, respect Mikaila Moffit at all.

December 2024

In December I was involved in a roll over crash while on my way to work. I called Mikaila to ask if her parents could help me. She said they weren't comfortable helping me. In November 2025, her family directly told me she never mentioned to them that I was in a car accident.

As of December, Mikaila still expected me to send her the weekly payments. By May of 2025 the total value of the payments was $17,000+.

May 2025

Over the preceeding two months, Mikaila had begun to hyperfixate on the idea of sleeping and being physically intimate with a woman. It was brought up to me, her boyfriend, frequently. After which I was asked to not hyperfixate on the fact that my girlfriend had just told me she was fantasizing about sleeping with other people.

I did not hyperfixate on it until I learned that she had online dating profiles listing herself as a Lesbian.

This became a recurring theme in our conversations, where I tried to be supportive. I did not learn until after our dissolution of our relationship that she had actively been telling people in mutual friend groups that she wasn't in a relationship with me, rather I was the last guy she dated before she came out as Lesbian, and I was her stalker. She completely ommitted everything else, including the fact that we were actively in a relationship at the time these conversations were going on.

November 2025

I reached out to her parents directly to disclose the lies that Mikaila was spreading about me and them online. I have had no contact with her parents from September 2024 until now. The bomb was dropped that they never knew she was still dating me. They did not have an issue with me being in a relationship with her, they had an issue with HER being in a relationship, because she is so detrimentaly dishonest about anything and everything, and fundamentally self-serving, for whatever reason.

Mikaila tried to frame her parents as witholding and controlling. What she (intentionally?) ommitted was that they were doing so to protect her, and to protect the world FROM her.

In Conlusion

This is simply my personal experience with Mikaila. She takes advantage of people because it is easier than making her way in the adult world responsibly and respectfully. Unfortunately, in her story book, I will always be the villian. I am okay with that. What she did broke me and rebuilt me in ways that I could not have accomplished without her doing so. I am better off for it. However, not everybody could benefit from that kind of betrayl. To anyone reading this, do your research. With Mikaila, and anyone else you date.

As a few lessons learned from my personal experience with Mikaila, trust your gut, and if you see the following red flags, you are valid in suspecting that your partner might be trying to hide something from you:

• You are isolated from their day to day life (You are hidden from people close to them).
• You are asked not to communicate with people close to them despite being in an intimate emotional and physical relationship with them (Isolation to control the narritive).
• The life they present to you, and the life you see on their social media are vastly different.
• They ask you to "Leave the past in the past" when there are valid concerns about dishonesty.
• They try to convince you that you are "too emotional" or "overreacting" when you voice your feelings.
• It feels like every time you try to voice a concern of yours it "Invalidates how they feel".

The long and short of it is, everyone deserves to be loved, and to be happy, even the people we dislike on a personal level. But no one, should have to go through the situation mentioned above simply because they were too naive to realize the truth.

The truth is, if your partner can't be honest with you, and has to lie to you, it's time to move on. Ignore the guilt trips and the tears (it isn't easy, I know from experience) and run for the f**king hills. No one deserves to be treated like that, even Mikaila Moffit, despite how disgusted I am with her as a human being.

Learn from my mistakes, protect yourself, educate yourself, and never EVER give to anyone beyond your means.

Stay safe, and if you found this site, you likely have already run into your own questions about Mikaila Moffit, and so, my friend, hopefully you can be the one to help her through whatever convoluted mess goes on inside her head, but remember, you can not help someone who does not want to be helped.